Fix checks for needs in Actions (#23789)

Fix:
- https://gitea.com/gitea/act_runner/issues/77
- https://gitea.com/gitea/act_runner/issues/81

Before:
<img width="1489" alt="image"
src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/9418365/228501567-f752cf87-a7ed-42c6-8f3d-ba741795c1fe.png">

Highlights:
- Upgrade act to make things doable, related to
  - https://gitea.com/gitea/act/pulls/32
  - https://gitea.com/gitea/act/pulls/33
  - https://gitea.com/gitea/act/pulls/35
- Make `needs` works
- Sort jobs in the original order in the workflow files

go.sum

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